Hmmm... perhaps you are missing a dimension....the quantum one. Vibration here reflect into the universe. It's why I think the ancient African philosophy of Ubuntu, of unconditional reciprocity, is far more interesting than a egocentric focus on only gaining personal experience.

There simply is no me without the other.

In facing the unavoidable absurdity of life and death lies the grounds for human solidarity... that too is Albert Camus. As he too was born and raised in Africa.